How to increase your self-esteem

Learn how to increase your self-esteem with our suggestions and tips.

I hate my body, I’m so ugly, I’d like to look like them, I hate myself – Does that sound familiar to you? In that case, maybe it’s time to work on your self-esteem!

Low self-esteem can be very damaging. It can impair your emotional health, it can impair your physical health, and it can disrupt your relationships with other people. To help yourself increase your self-esteem, try some of the suggestions below and stop letting your low self-esteem stand in the way of your life!

The first thing that people with low self-esteem need to know is that the only people who can make them feel bad about themselves are themselves. Other people may say vicious and painful things, but you decide how to react to it. You can accept and believe it, so let them hurt you, or you can accept it, reject it and realize that the only reason they let you down is that they feel better about themselves.

Secondly, if you are near people who make you feel negative about yourself, get them out of your life. Surround yourself with positive, optimistic people who support you and love you just the way you are. When you are in the company of people who radiate positivity, you will start to feel better about yourself.

Third, focus on your positives, not the negative ones. We all have things we would like to change on ourselves – stretch marks on our legs or excess fat on our stomach – however, focusing on those things will only reduce our self-esteem. It is very important to understand that all people have flaws and that all people have things they would like to change. But what about the things you love? That beautiful smile, that amazing personality and that big heart are the things that are much more important and you need to focus on.

If you went so far as to dislike anything, lie! Believe it or not, if you make yourself feel good about something, you can start to really feel good about it! That’s why, even if you don’t feel it, walk with pride and fiddle with your things. Once you see people begin to treat you differently, your self-esteem will increase in itself.

Lastly, make sure you take the time to take care of yourself. Keep yourself active and well groomed. By becoming more active, you increase the endorphins in your body by improving your mood immediately. Keep yourself busy and do things that make you feel good about yourself. If making money makes you happy, look for a job, if volunteering at a homeless center makes you happy, do it! And finally, keep yourself well groomed.

When you feel bad about yourself, increasing your self-esteem may seem like an impossible mission. Fortunately, that’s not the case! Follow these simple steps above to see what changes happen to you almost immediately!

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Written by michael


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